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miércoles, 19 de septiembre de 2012

Play dough and horses

The best of my intentions to keep an updated journal of our journey in homeschooling* is beaten once and again by a general lack of time and state of tiredness. At the beginning of the week I try to stay until late preparing activities and creating materials but these past evenings I have just fallen asleep while putting M to sleep. That's ok. We have been doing some activities that were not exactly planned but which thankfully turned out all right. 
Getting ready to make play dough: the process in itself was a nice activity
I sometimes feel a bit disappointed I am being unable to keep it all up but I guess that is what being pregnant of a second child while the first one is under 2 years means. Some days ago, my dear husband took M to the National Museum of Art to give me some time to rest. When I saw the photographs I just regretted I had not gone with them. The rest did me a lot of good, though. 

Here is M staring at some paintings at the MACBA
Fall seems to be creeping in. I hadn't really noticed it was getting cooler but after some rain last night it feels like autumn today. I even got my boots out and was happy to find that unlike my summer sandals, the boots still fit my feet. Am I the only pregnant woman out there whose feet seem to have grown? I have been wanting to set up an autumn tray but as of now we only have some pineapples, a tiny pumpkin and a butternut squash. My idea is to create a nice sensory tub for M to play with. We'll see if I get it before it is so cold we can call the season "winter". I still feel comfortable with the weather but I think summer is my favorite time of the year. However, I can admit there is a special beauty in Spring and Fall that other seasons may lack. And yet, funnily, my two children will be "winter kids".

Today we had the first meeting with one of the midwives that might assist us in our son's birth. I am finally starting to visualize this birth and we feel a delivery at home is the option that would suit us three best. One of the reasons I can't bring myself to picture a delivery in a hospital is that M would be left out of the experience and we would have to be separated for more time than we have ever been. As I feel it, this is an experience we don't want to have, if we can avoid it. 

On a weekend festival last week M got the chance to ride a horse for the first time, and a really tall mare it was (notice my husband's head peeping over the horse's withers. He is 1,83 m tall //around 6 feet). I was very excited and delighted to see that she wasn't a bit scared, she just enjoyed it.
Riding a horse for the very first time
In the language department, we have seen some qualitative changes in the way M expresses herself. She is able to construct longer sentences and surprises us with structures such as Subj+verb+object or with the correct use of conjugations (gos dorm // gatets dormen). She is good at describing what she sees. While in a park she told me the other day: "that moto(rbike) falling", and some other day "boy eating chocolate". She often uses sentences including "to" for purpose, specially when she wants to do something or to go someplace "to see papa", "to see Lila -her friend".
She is starting to use some adjectives as well as in "red shoes", "soft pillow" or "black glasses". Her use of connectors such as "because" is still a bit erratic but she surprised me the other day saying "because mama". I've heard her using "enough" and"like" for comparisons, which are also novelties. But the most incredible sentences, in my opinion, were "these girls jumping to eat sausage", "aquestes noies què fan?" qui és aquest bebè?", "meves sabates són aquí sota", and "petita Marina banyat la piscina" (6.9.2012). I wrote down the date 'cause I was really impressed. She seems to retain sentences she has heard and to repeat them afterwards. Her use of pronouns is upside down, "I" being "you" and the other way round. However confusing, I think we are managing to understand her most of the time.

* After some reflection, I have considered it necessary to clarify my use of the concept of "homeschooling". I wouldn't like to trigger a debate around schooling, unschooling, and so on, so I'd better explain myself. M is only 20 months old so it is not really accurate to refer to what we do as "homeschooling". I do it only out of a necessity to give a name to what we do and the thrill of being the one who cares for M development and education. It is truly uncommon where we live for a toddler of 20 months to stay home with a parent, so I have sometimes felt compelled to justify my position. This might be silly but being able to prove all we do makes me feel I am justifying a whole way of raising kids and showing people that staying home doesn't mean "doing nothing, or letting your kids watch TV all day". Well, we don't even own a TV set, ahem...

4 comentarios:

  1. Hola... tengo un bebe de 6 meses y justo empiezo a conocer el metodo montessori... estoy encantada.. descubri tu blog y me lo estoy leyendo desdel principio...tengo tantas dudas!
    Podrias ayudarme y decirme que libros leer ( me estoy leyendo La descoberta de l'enfant), donde ir a que me den consejos y guia??
    Muchas gracias... tienes una niña encantadora!

  2. Hola!! Muchas gracias por tu comentario y por interesarte por mi blog.
    No sé si lees inglés, pero los mejores libros que recomendaría son "Montessori from the start" de Paula Polk Lillard y Lynn Lillard Jessen, así como "How to raise an amazing child the Montessori way", de Tim Seldin.
    Acerca del consejo y guía que me pides, creo en primer lugar que se debe escuchar el propio instinto y observar a tu bebé antes que nada. Cualquier cosa, actividad, ambiente preparado en estilo Montessori tiene en cuenta al niño o niña al que va destinado y sus necesidades. A continuación, si deseas comentar con otras personas tus dudas, te diría a que lo hagas con personas que tienen experiencia con la filosofía Montessori. Muchas veces la blogosfera sirve ya que son bastantes las personas que, profesionales de la educación, escriben blogs. También te animo a que consultes lo que te parezca aquí en mi blog. En la medida que pueda, haré lo posible para darte "feedback".

  3. Gracias!! si que leo en ingles...muchas gracias por los consejos...a ver si encuentro donde comprar los libros...salut!

  4. El lugar más fácil y barato creo que será "iberlibros" en Internet. Así compré yo los míos. Te dejo mi mail para que, si quieres, me escribas en privado y puedas presentarte. Me gustaría saber tu nombre y de dónde eres. Así si sé de iniciativas que puedan interesarte, te podré contactar. litandlanadgmail.com (ya sabes, @ en lugar de ad)